Although many people are looking forward to moving abroad, one thing that holds some back is the fear of having to say goodbye to friends and loved ones at home. That is understandable, but it's really not necessary to say goodbye.
This is merely a psychological problem that can be overcome. It is very similar to the feeling one has when selling a favourite possession. You might or might not have experienced this already. The important mental preparation when planning on moving abroad is to tell yourself that it is only like a long vacation. (I am presuming that you do want to see your friends and family again and that you are not going to turn into a recluse.) Flights are quite cheap these days and often the cost savings that can be gained by living abroad will outweigh the additional flights needed to make regular return visits. A lower cost of living is one reason that many people decide to move abroad in the first place. Read some of the reasons that motivates people to live abroad. If you are self-employed, then you will possibly have the flexibility of being able to live anywhere you choose and consequently be able to travel when you wish. However, even if you are dependent on your employer, you might have discovered extra flexibility due to the fact that you are living abroad. In that case, your basis for negotiation will be greater. Maybe you can plan to take a long trip 'home' every year or several shorter trips throughout the year.
